Sometimes after receiving Thursday newsletters I receive back encouragement and further ideas on what to read.  I will list some of them for you to see what others are reading, or how we are all in the process of learning and changing and trying to develop ourselves.  Thank you for your notes to me.  Thank you for your ideas for what to carry in the store, and for what you suggest that I read.  I hope that you find encouragement, motivation, and comfort when you've read some of my notes and some of the responses below.  I am not going to even put first names, to keep the privacy of so many of you knowing each other! Susan

Thank you so much for the poem, "High School Senior".  So beautiful and aching all at onceI, at once, sought out my oldest daughter and held her close.  It is not an unusual thing in our home to hold each other close, but the poem provided an urgency in me to do it more.  Thank you!  (5/2/11)

I was so comforted reading the poem "Two Religions".  I believe wholeheartedly that it is true--and I needed the reminder it brought.  I am sighing because before I read your post  I had just come in from a tromp in the snow with my 9 year old Gracie and my 7 year old Tait.  I have laundry, supper, bills, etc. etc.etc.  but I refuse to allow my mind to be in tatters over any of them. Today --I chose what was most important.  Thank you for the encouragement!   On that note as well, "Romancing Your Child's Heart," by Monte Swan is my favorite book for parents.  I can hardly have a conversation on this topic without mentioning it.  The man conveys truth with such tenderness.  I am also grateful for your recommended book list.  I plan to begin with something by Anne Morrow Lindbergh.  (3/3/11)

I just want to thank you for taking the time this morning to visit with
me. I was afraid that I wouldn't understand the book Gift from the Sea
and with your help it is meaning a lot more to me then I ever thought I
would be able to get from it. I just love coming into your store... (2/26/11)
 

Susan, ...God tucks these little people into our bodies and hearts and with the gift of their birth, gives also the gift of purpose.  Growing up, being a mother was never my aim.  It honestly did not cross my mind to long for children.  In fact, we "put it off" until I was almost 30; Then our daughter was born, and my horizons were transformed completely.  I heard a new Mom say once that having a child was "like taking your heart out of your body and letting it walk around....How true.

I thought about the "high-thoughted" words you give your readers each week.  They are valuable and rare. Words matter.  I have what I think of as a banquet of books on hand each day.  For my main course lately, I have just finished, "The Excellent Wife," by Martha Peace.  Beth Moore's "David" has been the one teetering on the book stand of my treadmill through the month of January.  Edith Schaeffer's "The Art of Life." has been one I've picked up lately too,  reading bits here and there.The "sweets" on the menu has been Anne of Green Gables.  I have never read it, and honestly have a hard time giving myself permission to read fiction.  But long winter days of being snowed in loosened me up considerably....(smile).   (2/19)

Thanks again for the inspiration!  I thought of you this week when I read something that made me laugh, so thought I'd pass it along.  I'm trying to read some Bess Streeter Aldrich books, as she is a shirt-tail relative of my husband.  From "Mrs. Mason": "Father went off as he was told.He was one of those men who have learned to have implicit faith in their wives' management.  If Mother had said, 'Henry, take this pail and bring me some milk from the Milky Way,' he would have unthinkingly reached for the bucket."  Here's to the books! (1/28/11)

WONDERFUL!!  Just what I needed to hear tonight.  I loved the ant carrying the kernel of corn - sounds like my life - and then I hear of someone who really has a thorn in their flesh and I'm humbled.  I will keep trying to get that corn to the top of the hill!!  Thanks for always bringing me down to earth.  You are my soil and help me connect with who I am.   (1/27/11)

Thanks so much for your quotes today- especially as I sometimes feel guilty about NOT agonizing over a  grocery list :)  Anyway, thanks to your note in the weekly email about our online book club, we have just finished our first month having read "Unbroken" by Laura Hildebrand. There are now twelve of us in the Happy Hour Online Book Club and we have a book for the month that we discuss using email the last week of the month. The shared email comments about the book have been terrific and we're excited to read February's book "The Forgotten Garden" by Kate Morton. Anyway, just wanted to give you an update on the book club.  Our members are from all areas of Nebraska and one from Arizona. Thanks again for promoting the idea and getting it going.So far it's soooo fun. (1/27/11)

If you need something fun and light to read, check out "gone to green" by Judy Christie.  It is about a big city newspaper woman who inherits a newspaper in small town Louisiana.  She is having issues with her faith and finds it renewed in dealing with small town politics and great new friends.  Not as deep as most of your reads, but sometimes you just need to have fun! Thanks for all of the great recommendations! (1/24/11)

I heard an elderly lady say the other day, "Oh how I just hate these long evenings. They make time go by so slow."  I couldn't help by think how differently it is for me.  I just LOVE them!!  We tend to not be out and about in the evenings as much this time of year and so after our nightly routine of supper/homework/bath etc., there is actually TIME left for those "friends" of ours that have been waiting so patiently on the book shelf!  Bed time comes far too quickly for me and I don't feel I have enough time to read all the different books I'd like to cover and still accomplish the other things I want to do.  I hope I can remember these feelings when my life changes and I think the evenings drag on.  (1/21/11)

Thanks so much for this wonderful bit of news and brain food.  What a great way to start the day!   And it is so true - the soul does find respite in books.  (1/13/11)

I ran across a children's book that I hope that you have in your store- and if you don't.... you MUST get...It's called "Our Tree Named Steve" by Alan Zweibel.  Check it out.  I bought 4 of them.  (11/26/10)

Hi Susan:  Just had to write and tell you how much I liked what you wrote about our thoughts in our attic space!   Love the analogy and I will remember it.   We've had some challenging  days recently and I need to remind myself not to worry but trust....so thanks for the words. (11/18/10)

Two new books:  Lesley Kagan "Tomorrow River" and Barbara Kingsolver "The Lacuna".  A little over 1/2 way done with the latter but so far it is wonderful! Have a box full of books to bring down someday soon! (11/14/10)

I thought of the name of the movie I was trying to tell you about today. "Definitely Maybe" starring Ryan Reynold, Abigail Breslin, Isla Fisher and others. I like the part about the book, "Jane Eyre", that Isla's character is looking for. My daughters also really liked this movie- they usually have excellent taste. (11/6/10)

We had a great time Saturday.    Sorry you weren't in the store but you will just have to stop by when you are in Grand Island.  We sat Warren down in a chair and I started piling books in his lap.   All this was in your used book store.  I love it!!!  (11/1/10)

Susan, I've only just had a chance to read last week's newsletter...(and that at the expense of doing my homework!)  It reminded me of a story of St. Francis.  He was walking in the woods, and it seemed too quiet to him.  So he told the birds to praise their Creator...and the trees and sky were FILLED with birdsong!  (I always loved that story!)  (10/18/10) 

Hi Susan,  Such good stuff again today!  I was tired this morning & your “Tonight we'll write an epitaph for the moments we use today...will we use them in a way worth writing?” was just the encouragement I needed to get off my duff & do my work.  Also from “That’s My Son,” what an encouragement to be the kind of mother who has learned to handle the bumps of life & to teach my grandkids that as well.   I live too far away to visit your shop regularly (Wichita, KS) but thanks for your encouragement by e-mail!   (9/23/10) 

Hello!  Of COURSE we were thrilled by your amazing store, amazing vibrance, and amazing generosity!! That was exactly what we needed Saturday morning, and you can be sure we will make it a point to be back soon and often. :)  I can't wait for you to get Life is a Verb... I think you'll love it!  Patti Digh (the author) comes along with her business partner David Robinson and works with us and educators in our area on systems change (making schools better) and we are really passionate about getting community members involved. They will be back in March for two days and May for two days and we'd love to have you join us if that's a possibility for you.  You will LOVE them both, they have a very unique approach to their work.  (9/21/10)

Susan, I just have to tell you about the best book I am reading.  It is called The Help and I see it is on the best seller list.  If this book doesn’t get to number one I would be very surprised.  I highly recommend having it in the store if you don’t already.  It would appeal to everyone you sell to.  (9/9/10)Oh, my goodness - Just spent hour in your "new" store!!!  It is beautiful, inviting, enticing and just plain fun!!!  (9/3/10)   

T his year I told myself I can't live the next thirty years of my life that way, so get a grip already. I put a stickie in front of my desk that says, "CHOOSE JOY". Well, I haven't totally escaped the grims, but I am working hard to fake it when I'm not quite there yet.  I also am working really hard (like I told you) to nurture relationships with those people whom I admire, and who leave me feeling happy and peaceful and revitalized.  This summer I saw this really funny quote from a businessman who said, "Do you know the way to have a happy work place? Fire the unhappy ones."  It made me realize that I'm not dreaming it when I feel like some people suck all the life out of me and leave me discouraged, and that I have to stop letting those people live in my brain. I can still be a compassionate friend to them, but I can have some protective distance.  (8/25/10)  (8/25/10)

Susan:  Please know I appreciate your weekly messages.  I read Anne Lindberg's book "Gift from the Sea" years ago, but your quote struck me tonight.  Tonight I am older and at a different phase of life than when I first read her words.  Thank you.  (7/28/10)

An outreach effort to consider on the personal level. If you've read "Three Cups of Tea," you are familiar with Greg Mortenson. If you have not read this book, I rate is as a book that will have a profound impact on your thinking. The first 100 pages are just background; wade through them to get to the heart of the story.  (7/25/10)

Thanks...................are you aware............the words "silence" and "listen" have the same letters ?!  (7/1/10)

Two thoughts, I truly agree with your observation but hadn’t really thought of it before that how much more we can learn from the writer of a journal of his life above reading a biography.  I have a bit about Florence Nightingale but not the in depth you are getting.  I also like the proverb/quote of Eleanor Roosevelt.  I want to share one that came to me yesterday which seems to fit me somewhat.  Japanese Proverb:  Fall seven times.  stand up eight.  I continue on.  (7/1/10) (referring to Florence Nightingale writing)

Hi there!   I just finished reading Kristin Hannah’s book “winter garden” last night.  Oh Susan, I just cried and whimpered and bawled for the last 30 minutes I was reading it.  Wow, what a book.  I devoured it in just 3 sittings – 400 pages.  She was recommended to me by some of my friends in Bible study, so they loaned me the book, and I understand their passion for her writing now.  (6/23/10)

Susan, We were in your store last week and were treated with the best customer service I have experienced in a long time.  We travel quite a bit and so I feel I can sepak from experience.  I love your assortment of educational toys.  We will be bringing in our grandson the week of the 4th for more toys.  :)   Thanks to your helpful, courteous staff. It was a pleasure shopping at your store.  (6/17/10)

I have given Gift from the Sea to 4 of my good friends now and one of them has given it to 5 of her friends! You have started a gift chain and so many women are now reading the inspiring words of Anne Lindberg!  (6/14/10)

This was one of my favorite ones yet….. I loved and NEEDED every word today!  I feel like I’m being swallowed up by my children, but today YOU reminded me to go outside and enjoy them.  My toilets can wait another day, week, or grossly month probably.  My soul is smiling.  (6/3/10)

  Perfect Thursday note for me! I could hardly pull myself from the house this AM as I look into the eyes of (grandchildren), just woke from their sleep wide eyed and full of laughs and giggles…their little faces so perfect that I could hardly quit looking at them to get myself dressed!Those are the moments of perfection that I just want to keep in my mind forever….or as Wadsworth puts it...fast in my fortress, down into the dungeon in the round tower of my heart! (6/3/10)  

 Oh my goodness.....  have you been a little mouse in the corner of my life lately?????  The last quote was an utter blessing today... read it tonight after I sought refuge in a long hot shower, trying so hard to rinse the ache of life away---  and I felt that incessant call of "weariness"------  it hit me really hard tonight and I was getting sucked into self-pity and
self-loathing.  I got out, took a little rest, and got up, knowing that no matter what, there are four young people in this house who rely on me.  I shuffled down to the kitchen, pulled up my email, and there was my friend, once again knowing just what I needed to read most, just the exact words to keep me going.  How do you do that????? Nothing short of a blessing.   I can do this. I can get through this part of my song, listen to those minor chords, knowing that the beautiful harmony is sure to follow eventually... No worries-- nothing major that should give you cause for alarm or feel like you need to come rescue me---  because even though the issues are minor in the grand scheme of things, you have already rescued me today with your choice of words to share.  (5/20/10)

 I spent most of yesterday captive on airplanes and took the opportunity to commune with your wonderful “Gift from the Sea” offering to me.   I was coming back from a weekend in Houston, where I had the pleasure of helping one of our international host students celebrate her graduation from Rice University and the dreaded task of helping her relocate four year’s worth of “stuff.”   This was after spending the previous weekend helping my husband’s family (including 5 far-flung siblings) find the energy and wisdom to agree on end-of-life decisions for my father-in-law.   And after a week that included sobering diagnostic news on my Hodgkins survivor husband’s “late effect” symptoms of rapidly degrading heart and lung functions.  In other words, I was seeking refuge and balance.  And I found it in those pages.  You were sitting on my shoulder as I reflected, regrouped, and regained a sense of calm amidst my purposefulness.  Thank you.  (5/17/10)

I cannot think of a more perfect message for you to put in your newsletter on this day.  It is my birthday (!) and I've been thinking all morning about my life's purpose.  Contemplating whether or not I am "in tune" with the composer.  Am I living my life to the fullest?  Your thoughts this week are certainly marching to the same beat as mine!  Thanks again for the words you write.  (5/13/10)

My husband hates that I sigh! Last night I did workshop on Sabbath Keeping - so hard to do in our busy world - the one you describe here- but so necessary. Our productivity does not keep the world going......God does.  Observing even Sabbath 'moments' allows us to hear God's quiet voice (even when we are sighing!) I recommend "Sabbath Keeping" by Lynne M Baab, if you don't already carry it.  (5/13/10)

 Susan,
I was watching NTVs Good Life and the co-host Leslie Means has authored a children's book. here's the link: www.lesliemeans.com  I think it looks like a neat book that would fit your store's niche! (5/12/10)

Thank you so much for sharing. So many jewels here! I will save this email so I can read it again from time to time. And I think I need to get some more Anne Lindberg so I can have my own little shelf of treasures. :)  (5/6/10)

Last week I had probably my first experience of what I think it means "Be still and know that I am God" means.  While I had 2 hours to myself, I sat in my new room to read the Bible and our Bible study lessons.  Before I started reading, I looked up and saw such a peaceful and heartwarming sight!  I looked out my window from my oversized chair and saw layers of trees with different colors and textures while the wind from the window gently touched my face.  Through the layers of leaves, I saw a bird house high above the ground.  Oh, how sweetly the birds were singing as the sun shone brightly on them.  In that moment, I was still for one of the first times in my life.  I didn't think of anything else but God's gift he had given me in that moment.  All the beauty and peace.  I seem to always have a recording in my head telling me everything I need to do or replaying something that has happened.  What peace in just being STILL.  ____ told us that she liked that verse you wrote about today.  Now I understand it a little better.  Thank you for reminding me of that moment again today with your Thursday note.  (5/6/10)

Ran in real quick to get my emails and check office stuff. Got all bad emails, then gave myself permission to stay and read your email…overwhelmed be all the things that spoke to me..then I get to Be Still And Know that I AM GOD…..blubbering sobs creeping up in my throat!! You..YOU…always giving us hope… (5/6/10)

Well, it really didn't take me 4 months to read "Gift from the Sea"!  I am just that bad about sitting down and emailing!  And I am VERY EMBARASSED it has taken me so long....time just slipped away.  I originally wanted to sit down and email thoughts about different sections but I just never seemed to have the time.  Which is why the book was so good for me.....I'm not good at balancing everything in my life!  Wouldn't it be nice if we all had a cottage by the sea to go and relax for a time.  I am amazed how much she wrote "back then" that still holds true today.  We women are pulled in so many different directions with homes, jobs, husbands, and children that we rarely get time for ourselves.  And when we do we feel guilty about it because we are leaving behind so much that has to be done!  I just loved how she could write with all women in mind and make us feel like we are NOT the only one who feels overwhelmed with trying to balance all the aspects of our lives.  It was a fantastic book and definitely one that can and will be reread over and over.  Thank you for introducing me to her work!  (4/30/10)

Just wanted to thank you again for Streams in the Desert.  I read it every day and just love how it keeps me connected with the word.  (4/29/10)

Books on the loss of a child.   I can't say I know of any particular good ones.  I lost my daughter Noelle Petrice when she was 11 weeks old.  Outside she was perfect, and  so beautiful,  with a full head of dark hair.  But inside she had heart defects.  We did everything we could for her, but God brought her home to Him.  I don't know why.  But I do know for sure, that He had a really really good reason and that it was an act of kindness and wisdom on His part.  I trust Him in that decision.  She is so safe with Him.  

  When she died, (this was in 1979) I was only 20.  Funny thing, I wasn't even saved yet but having been raised in a Christian home I knew she was in Heaven and I planned on seeing her again.  My salvation story is a whole  "nother" thing for another day. At any rate, people would say to me "What kind of God would let her die" and even then I would tell them "I'm not mad at God.  I know He had a good reason".    At the age of 20, it felt like such a long time  to wait out the rest of my life to see her again.  But I told my dad a couple years ago that now it doesn't see like it will be very long at all.  Time goes so fast, and His return is so near.   It won't be long at all and in fact could be any moment.  I just can't wait. I don't have first hand knowledge of any good books on grieving.  But I would recommend anything that speaks of God's perfect love and wisdom, such as that book you quoted from some time ago that I like so much:   Gold by Moonlightby Amy Carmichael.   Everything He does is actually because He loves us so much.    The specific "why" is really not important now.  We'll know all of that when we see Him face to face.    Sometimes He does let us know the "why" now,  but when He doesn't, He longs with all of His heart,  for us to know Him well enough to trust Him with our most valued treasures of all......those people we love.   (4/28/10)

Susan, you're the only one I've ever heard mention that book, Michael O'Halloran.  ___ read it as a child and has warm memories of it and another Gene Stratton Porter book, Freckles.  We have them both on our shelves.  Now I'm going to have to finally read them!  (4/15/10)

Susan, This tells me it is time to take popcorn to the cemetery, that was Lynn's favorite food, so I scatter it on his grave, squirrels and birds love it.  So he gets new flowers and popcorn Have a wonderful spring.  (4/8/10)

Dear Susan, Thank you for sharing your thoughts this morning.  Wow!  And thank you for letting me share my heart with you as well ....  and then you'll understand why what you wrote today touched me so deeply. 
 
Here is a poem I wrote on August 29, 1997:  The Journey Home by Way of the Heart
 
Fingers and noses pressed up against the large airport window, eyes
Peering into the Chicago darkness.
Gate 26 ... O'Hare Airport ... November 18, 1982.
 
Then the silver stork landed and ever so slowly eased up to the window,
Where four little children watched it grow as it came closer,
Bringing their new sister home --
And where a Mom and a Dad stood bravely behind
Their row of two blondes and two ebony tresses,
Fighting back the tears of anticipationg and excitement.
 
The airport lights ... the hustle and bustle of a Thursday night in Chicago,
Our daughter is coming home!
From Seoul, Korea, her birthing process spanned
Twenty hours and half the globe ...
 
And oh, my, there she is, that's her, I know that's our Sarah!
She is bundled up in wool and plaid, no other luggage in hand.
She is wrapped up in a lineage of sad goodbyes and hesitant hellos,
Baggage accumulated over her seven years of odyssey ...
A litany of tears -- a liturgy of hope.
Sarah's little fingers lingered in the palm of her Korean escort --
[An interpretter telling about eating chicken for dinner,
A midwife showing us a picture that her "newborn" drew
While flying over the ocean,
A loving lady who now had completed her mission work ....]
She placed Sarah's hand into mine,
And suddenly the noisy homecoming seemed very quiet
As the family of seven eased into the stream of the concourse.
Sarah stopped, turned to look over her shoulder at the lady
Who loved her across the threshold of a crowded orphanage
Into our hearts -- hearts that had decided we had room for one more!
 
Our van broke through the darkness as we traveled westward home;
A pillow fight punctuated by giggles gave way to
Sighs and childhood snores that created a melody line
To the clackety-clack of the tires along the interstate.
I squeezed Steve's hand as he proudly steered his family home.
 
As so the history of Sarah Jin's final fifteen years began.
She jumped feet first into our family;
She wiggled headlong into our hearts,
Turning predictions upside down,
Melting our fears and concerns about birthing a seven-year-old
Into nothingness ...
A smile needs no translation;
No interpretter is needed to feel the warmth of a hug.
 
Sarah made our home bounce with activity,
She livened up our house with laughter ...
She created hope, she magnified joy,
She drew sunshine into the shadows and corners of our lives.
She made us laugh,
And her smile helped us to take ourselves less seriously.
Her eyes danced with trust,
And our hearts grew full and whole and deep ...
And soon we could barely remember our lives
Without Sarah's being there with us.
 
Sarah was love in animated s-l-o-w motion;
She was courage with curled eyelashes,
She was determination with a charming smile.
 
Her journey from seven to twenty-two was full of surprises:
Sometimes she forged a road out of a wilderness,
Sometimes she floated on the winding road of circumstance,
Sometimes she swam upstream,
Sometimes she disappeared into the woods;
But always, eventually she came home.
 
And then one warm Wednesday afternoon
The crunch of metal upon metal awakened her --
And the flash of red lights and the sound of sirens
Escorted her towards a hospital that would never receive her,
Because on a stretch of highway, God intercepted
That northern passage at breakneck speed,
And He took our little girl's hand safely into His and
Whispered to the background music of a choir of angels,
"Sarah, dear heart, you're going home."
 
We all thought she was set to go to Hays as a college sophomore,
But on August 13, 1997, Sarah Jin Brom skipped academics and protocol
To graduate with her Master's Degree.
Sarah Jin ... Home, Safe and Sound ... Journey Complete.  (4/8/10)

Your message yesterday was so beautiful.  Yes, I cried.  My dad has been gone nearly 48 years and my husband, Dennis 7 years in May.  Thanks so much for how you shared  and also about Bess Streeter Aldrich.  (4/9/10)

Susan, What I didn't have the time/energy to let you know last week is that your email came the morning after my mom died. The first quote on your blog is the same one that was posted in her retirement center - on 3/31, the day she died. She was 90 and failing -so all is well.  Your thoughts on Easter, loss vs life - SO very timely.  (Quote referred to was The day the Lord created hope was probably the same day he created Spring (Bern Williams)  (4/5/10)

You have referenced several times in your letters about books by Bess Streeter Aldridge.  I picked up her book "A Lantern in Her Hand" one day in the store and oh my, my...you have certainly made a fan out of me!

I especially liked the analogy of "life is like field glasses".  In one end things are small and far way and the other up close and larger than life.  When I was a little girl, 50 years old was so far out in the future I couldn't fathom how many years away that was.  Now that I'm 50, and am finding everyday a tell tale line on my face that wasn't there yesterday, "time is rushing by so fast like the wind that I can't begin to stop it".  Yet in my head, I'm still that little girl with all those hopes and dreams that will never come to play. 

Yes, I cried because Abby Deal did not fulfill her dreams but how comforting it was to know that I am not the only one that feels that way.    That maybe someday, even though I didn't become famous or make lots of money that perhaps I have be able to leave a mark on someone's heart instead... (3/19/10)

As always, I enjoyed your newsletter this morning, but perhaps a bit more today.  The scripture reading: Matthew 11:28-30  “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy and my burden is light,” touched me and strangely reminded me of the Robin you had mentioned earlier in your email.  The first sighting!!!  I’ll explain. . .

Last year was an especially difficult one for me health wise and emotionally.  I really needed to come to God.  All my life I lived in a rural communities, but needed to move to Grand Island nine years ago with my husband’s promotion.  Grand Island was a big city to me, and  the concrete and lack of “earth” has really been difficult to get used to.  Last spring I moved a large plastic tree that I had used to decorate our living room out to our deck as it had become a dust collector and definitely out of style.  I had planned to put it in the trash for the trash collector to haul away.   It wasn’t on the deck too long until a spring robin (I fondly named Rhoda) built a nest in the leafy, somewhat unyielding, plastic branches.  Rhoda was indeed God’s gift to me as I watched her build her home, care for her eggs, and nurture her young babies with her faithful partner Roy.   The nest was supported miraculously by the plastic tree until the babies were old enough to fly away. I felt a calmness and closeness to God that I had missed for several years.  I can’t wait to get home tonight to drag out the stored plastic tree and place it on the deck for Rhoda and Roy.   Once again, I need to come to God because I am one of the weakest of the weak and as God reminded me in your newsletter: the weaker you are, the more gently I approach you.   Thank you.  (3/11/10)

I have spent so much energy trying not to be "under the circumstances", and found one great way to retrain my mind.  Because it is so easy to look at people and become discouraged, I decided to instead look at the attributes of the Lord.  I made a list from memory of all of things that I could remember of what the Bible said about Jesus.  Since all of the attributes of God are found in Him, it was a wonderfully encouragement to refocus my heart and mind on the One Who makes going through this "sometimes more than ugly" world, worth the effort.

I'm not too good at the "self-help" stuff.  I tend to become overwhelmed by my own less than effective efforts at doing things better, thinking things through better, or putting aside my self-pity.  So when I retrain my thoughts to the One Who knows me and the path that I will take when I follow Him, it takes my self-effort and puts it "on the shelf", while I concentrate on Belonging to the One Who knows me best and loves me most.  Helping others becomes less stressful, because I am the one being helped in the process, as well.  (3/10/10)

Just wanted to thank you again for the warm welcome, warm smile and the warm yummy coffee this afternoon when I stopped in your shop.  I enjoyed visiting with you and finding some gifts and books.  What a nice way to brighten a dreary Monday!   Keep writing your weekly thoughts and book reviews, I enjoy reading it each week.  (3/8/10)

I just wanted to tell you thanks again for donating the kids castle to the Build A Dream Charity Auction.  Thought you would like to know that the gentleman who placed the final silent auction bid had very specific requirements that if he “won” he wanted the castle to be donated to the Edith Abbott Memorial Library here in Grand Island.  So, Clay and I were at the library this past Thursday morning and that DID in fact happen and it’s a wonderful addition to the library!!!  So, double the good deed for you…money generated toward a good cause AND a great new addition to the kids zone at the library!!   (3/7/10)

What a coincidence to read this today!  I have a parishioner who will be 99 next week.  John has lived independently in an apartment until about a month ago when he fell and broke bones in his foot and leg. He's now at Hearthstone, a nursing facility in York. He knows that he won't be going home again, that Hearthstone will become his final home on earth.

John has told me before, when I would visit him in his apartment, about his favorite author, Lloyd Douglas, and of his favorite book Doctor Hudson's Secret Journal. He talked again just recently about these books.  I read that one as a young person. Don't think I have read Magnificent Obsession, but have seen the movie several times and it's wonderful.  In fact, maybe I'll add it into my Netflix queue right now.  Thanks for reminding me of these books.  (3/6/10)

I love your e-mails, the one you sent yesterday, well, it was just great. It gave me a great feeling to start my day.  I always look forward to them.  The pictures with the kids are priceless.  I also want to thank you so much for the apron, I wear it a lot, and when I do, I think of you, and offer a prayer that you are going to have a good day.  That was so thoughtful of you.  You put a smile on my face.  (3/5/10)

Susan, did you know there is an old movie starring Rock Hudson titled "The Magnificent Obsession"?  It is based on the book - about the man who survives while the doctor dies because of not having the medical equip being used on the survivor.  As always, its not exactly like the book, but a terrific B/W movie.   (3/4/10)

Theme in those books is very "Lenten": my life for your life. Will find a copy. Enjoy the day. I'm in search of coffee.  (3/4/10) (Referring to Dr. Hudson's Secret Journal and Magnificent Obsession by Lloyd Douglas)

Tereasa sent me a book  it is called  "Cold Noses at the Pearly 
Gate:   by Gary Kurz,  I have just started it a little last night   a  book of hope for those who have lost a pet.  (3/2/10)

My grandchildren really "Loved" all of their gifts, so did their parents!! I really do enjoy your store and all that you stand for.  It is so calming and invigorating at the same time.  Such a presence of peace and tranquility that engulfs the senses as a person walks through your store.  (3/1/10)

Thank you so very much for Monday!!!!  I really need someone and you helped me when I did not think there was anyone that could!  I am enjoying the Gift from the Sea!  It is beautiful!  Thanks for all the time you take to help out the community and all who come in and get you wonderful letters!   I can't wait till next week!  Hope and I are thinking of making it a weekly trip in to get a new addition for her kitchen instead of monthly!  I really hope that we can get in when your there!  Thanks again!  Thanks so much and God Bless!!  (2/25/10)
 

We were in your store last night and we had a total blast! I absolutely love the new kid's books you have in! We bought both the train and truck pull tab books for Daulton and of course more gummies!   Thanks for having your store - we really love coming in!  (2/23/10)
  

Don't know that you remember but you talked me into buying this book some time ago and I read it right away.  It's a fun read indeed. 

I am having the same problem as the folks in Nollop--I'm losing letters, but not off my house, but off the computer keyboard, from use.  Thanks to my high school typing teacher, I learned and retain the touch-typing method, so I can function, even though I cannot now see "i", "k", "l", "m", or "n", and "c", "e" and "s" are fading fast.  But I still have my "p"'s and "q"s and am minding them:-) 

But today what I have copied to keep is your closing para.  Writing one's epitaph at the end of a day is a wonderful thought to start the day.  Thanks.  (2/18/10) (Referring toElla Minnow Pea)

Thank you once again for hitting the nail on the head!!  I must have needed Jane Eyre at 630 this a.m. - so much to think about.  Jay's heart is very bad and I haven't been able to sleep because of worry, but your writings will help me get through this.  A transplant is in order - he is working and doing okay, but could be soooooo much better.  And what if death?  Everyone must die and oh, what a wonderful afterlife!  You keep me on task!!! I will copy your notes from this a.m. and sleep with them under my pillow this night!!  (2/5/10)

I so liked and appreciated the thoughts in this newsletter (and also empathized with your tiredness and need for caffeine)!  I read this book many years ago; will get it out and read it again as soon as I can, for now, you have made it possible to look for new meaning to the lines, and I (hopefully) am more mature in my thinking, and much more advanced in my belief in God.  Thanks for making the enriching statements.  (2/4/10)

Thanks again, Susan, for sharing from a great book.  I haven't read it since high school, and missed all the deep things you noticed.  I've realized that when I re-read a book as an adult (a very old one!) I see much more than I remembered seeing, and since this one is on my shelf, I'll make a point to re-read it.  I'm now reading "The Bookseller of Kabul"  Makes me VERY GLAD I was born in the USA!  (2/4/10)  (Referring to Jane Eyre)

Check out "Clara's War".  Very good book-think you will like it.   (2/3/10)

I am about 20 pages away from having finished "A Lantern in her hand".  It is such a great book.  What I really appreciate is that it's not something I would have ever picked up on my own, without your recommendation, so it's been very nice to explore this new insight and I love all the Nebraska history.  That's why I wanted to join the book club, too.  I read so much and all the time, but I wanted to kind of branch out and get new ideas and suggestions.  Thanks so much for your recommendation.  I'll come in again and get the other one by Bess Streeter Aldrich that you recommended. 

(I think I'm bringing my friend from Grand Island to your store tomorrow.  She's never been and I've been talking about it so much and told her she just HAS to come!!)  (1/29/10)

For some reason, this week your newsletter hit my heart!!!  (as it has many other weeks, just hadn’t taken the time to let you know)  I love the Telepathy poem.  In fact, I sent it on to my two daughters and a couple of really good friends.  Plus the Heritage piece is precious.  Wouldn’t that make a good birthday gift to have a Babushka and that piece inside the package?   (1/29/10)

I do have one Anne Lindbergh book - Gift from the Sea - sitting on my bookshelf that I have yet to read. I have never read any of her writings but I do look forward to it. But right now I have 4 books in my Susan Box that I must read first!!!. Here is the interesting thing - I had never read any of Anne's writings and I saw the Sea book in a small display at a local antique store. There were 3 copies sitting there and I bought it mainly b/c I thought it was a pretty book. I loved the seashell on the cover b/c I always gather shells when we are at the beach. At the register, the shopowner said that she sold that particular book faster than she could put it out. The book has been sitting in my home for at least a year now but I will make it a new priority since you recommend it.  (1/28/10)

Wanted to keep reading rather than working!!  I am thoroughly enjoying this little gem. Reading about Abbie's heartaches and trials Is a great reminder that these times in our lives really can develop our character or break us if we allow it.   (1/27/10)

We finally made it home several hours after we intended. As soon as I changed my clothes and moved all the clothes from the suitcase to the laundry basket, I sat down to open my box.  The Looking Heavenward book was on the top – I briefly read the cover and wanted so much to start on it right then since you had indicated that it was another of your favorites. With great fortitude, I put that book aside to dig deeper into the box. The other two Bess books were just an intriguing – but on the very bottom, lay the one – the one that so touched me when I first found your website and writings. I lifted it out as if it were a delicate jewel and just holding it in my hand gave such pleasure. I just sat there holding it and studying the bleak yet peaceful painting on the front cover…I read the back cover all the while thinking of you and how I would have never even learned of this book had I not been led to “stumble across” your website…and I sat there speaking gratitude to the Creator for the manner in which our paths crossed just since Christmas. Then I found your note inside the front flap. You said that you hoped I would find a treasure here, too. Well I’ve read three chapters now and yes, I’ve found a treasure.  (1/25/10)

Last night, my husband was at a church meeting late, and after I put the kids to bed... i decided to not turn on the tv and I did dishes, picked up the house and folded some clothes in complete silence for about an hour.  I had lost my phone and didn't go to the computer.  Just silence...
And I kept thinking of Anne LIndberg and Gift from the Sea.

Then I sat down and read more of "A Lantern in her hand".  I couldn't put it down.  I wanted to keep reading... and I did until 12:30.  i'm so tired.  It's a life's story and maybe ordinary... or maybe no life is ordinary.  Unfortunately I have to work today and have quite a bit I need to accomplish but I am so glad for the silence and the alone time of last night.  :-)    (1/21/10)

I just slipped out of bed...only because my self talk reminded me it was Thursday and maybe the "note" was done, and that was reason enough to forcefully start my day... And here it is perfect words...from the ancient wisdom of men...these are the only men I trust you know....the ones that are wise and dead! How brilliant are the words of that fable...to remain as true today as then. Thanks again sweet Susan for my feeding my brain with wisdom of the ancients!!! Me smiling ready to face the day... (1/21/10)

I bought two more copies of "Gift from the Sea" for 2 of my friends.  You gave me such a wonderful gift and I want to pass it forward.  I started reading it Wednesday night, but didn't have much time and I finished it on Friday on the drive to Colorado.  I can't even tell you how I felt connected to that book and to the author and then to you because you gave it to me and had also loved it!  I really connected to the part of the Oyster shell and have now put seashells in my bathroom as a reminder, there's even an oyster shell in there.  It made me feel better about my feelings of not being a perfect person, having a perfect marriage or feeling so scattered all the time.  It helped me look at things and re-prioritize.  I'm just starting that and I want to read and re-read this book to soak it all in and I want more by anne Lindbergh.  It was amazing that she wrote that in 1954... I felt like she was talking to me today!  I just started reading "A Lantern in Her hands" last night and so far am really liking it, I will let you know what I think as I keep reading.  It feels peaceful to me... and calming.  I need some of that.  I think that's why I liked what you wrote about it and how to gain more time.  (1/20/10)

This is one of my favorites so far.  I think I will have a hard time adjusting when the kids are more and more self sufficient.  It reminds me to value and cultivate my relationship with ____….. I needed to be reminded that it will be just he and I for the majority of our life and our labor intensive years of raising children will come to an end before we know it.  (1/18/10)

Are you familiar with that book - No More Dreaded Mondays? I started that as my latest self-help book this year (I usually read about 2 self-help books each year - read one chapter a week repeatedly so that I can absorb the material). No More Dreaded Mondays is all about finding what you are suited to do and then finding a way to change your life in order to do it - hence you will not dread going to work each Monday. I am still looking for my hidden talent and wondering what I should do with my life other than being a supportive mother and grandmother. But this I do know (thanks to Simple Abundance), I want to make the most of each day and remember to enjoy the 'rest of the journey'.  (1/10/10)

I read this out loud to Matt.  He LOVES McManus.  He was reminding me of one we read about Pat and his buddy and sledding with Rancid Crabtree.  If you haven’t read that one…you must…hilarious!!!  (1/7/10)

So as I moved into the story of the woman entering heaven, my mind's eye was seeing my own mother (already in heaven's gate) and another mother whom I have never met...your mother. But my mind's eye was also seeing my own precious daughter. B/c during the Christmas season of 2006 my daughter suffered a miscarriage - the Christmas season of 2007 she had another miscarriage. Therefore, she often talks about meeting those two babies some day in heaven.

When I got to the part about the mother not seeing her "precious babe who came here so many years ago", I had to stop and take a breather - couldn't read through the tearing eyes. Had to take another break when I read about the angel saying "though shalt see her wearing most precious pearls". All I could think was that my daughter's two babies would have a long strange of pearls!

Then your own darling child sleeping sweetly beside you as you wrote.  Your ending was inspiring and uplifting. Thank you for a wonderful start to the new year. I have printed this article and read it several times already...and I anxiously await next Thursday's treasure.  (1/3/10)

Awesome email……. Moved to tears.  I never put that perspective on our little kiddos that you and I never got to hold.  They are up there with the Lord who loves them…. Maybe they are friends.  (1/2/10)

Susan, thank you for this.  I am many time to busy to read all your stuff but I started reading this and couldn't stop until I was finished.  My son was murdered in 2003 and my wife died in 2004 of breast cancer.  At first I thought she had gone to care for him.  I have come to realize that he went first to prepare the way for her.  She was afraid of death and I'm sure his hand reaching out to her was a comfort. (1/31/09)

How wonderful!!  Thank you!  I think for once in my life I  am speechless.  (12/31/09)

Love this one : )  After having 2 miscarriges this makes you think!!  (12/31/09)

Thank You for sharing today's thoughts !!  I practically cried! Really hits home when you've lost a loved one, and how it all just seems like yesterday when "it" happened, Life IS Short, it's neat how kids see it all in a different perspective than us seeing the bad parts, my boys have shared the same thoughts as Camden on a loved one, or pet in heaven, makes us adults feel so much better!  It's special to see it all through a Childs eyes!!  (12/31/09)

Couldn't help but connect your short story this morning by Eugene Field with his poem here.  I memorized the poem years ago.  With the rhyme and rhythm so strong it is easy to remember (I don't know why I learned it--probably for school, or why I picked this one.)  Here is the site where I found it--you might recognize other poems by Eugene Field. Eugene Field's son had died which ties into the short story you found.  http://www.mamalisa.com/field/index.html#boyblue  (12/31/09)

Thank you for taking the time to share all these thoughts.  I enjoyed reading every word, and feel compelled to read the whole book!  I am still reading Gift From the Sea and enjoying it very much.  I feel it is so rich I can only read a few pages at a time.  Then I need to go back and read it again!  Thank you again for sharing it with me, it truly is a gift!  (12/20/09)

What is the Latin phrase for "things are the devourer of time"?  Seems that is the realism of my life.  Love your emails!  (12/18/09)

Oh, Susan.  You just gave me the nicest gift this morning to sit and read your writings on what sounds like a WONderful book!  (12/18/09)

Dear Susan,

    I read through all your quotes from "A Lantern in her Hand"!  Wow!  I must read that book. You would like "Nothing to Make a Shadow".  Have you read it?  It's written by a woman who was a young girl when her family moved up here close to the area where we live--Winner, South Dakota. You would like it!  I'll bring it some time if you're interested. 

    I love your quote from C.S. Lewis at the beginning of your website.  "I am a part of all that I have met."  I have recently read some books that I found very moving;  I want so much to be moved by them, to be changed, to find someone to discuss them with  . . .  . 

    Time is an awesome mystery. When we get to heaven, we will not be confined by time or space.  I can't understand that with my finite mind, but I do look forward to it.  Time and space are so confining!  (12/18/09)

Susan,
My emotions are running high this week before Christmas, tears in my eyes as I read this... You could not have posted a more meaningful message today!  My "baby" turns three tomorrow - the youngest of three.  (My husband and I were married in 2002 and I had three babies by the end of 2006!)  The wind has certainly rushed by.  I have been in a whirlwind for the last three days, just trying to catch my breath!  Or has it been for the last three years?  I've been referring to it as "multi-tasking", but now I'm just thinking it's CRAZY!!!  Thank you so much for sharing this message.  It reached out and grabbed me.  God bless your aching fingers!  (12/17/09)

Susan, thanks so much for the Lantern in the Hand this morning. One of my all time favorite books that I haven’t read in years. I sat and read every word although I don’t have time — funny, huh? I don’t have time. Ironic. Thanks so much.   (12/17/09)

My dear Susan - you are a lantern to my soul - I want that book.  It amazes me how much I can relate to the emotions Abby is going through.  The difference is the "time" of the year in which it occurred.  She moved out west and I out east.  Same thoughts, fears and feelings.   (12/17/09)

Hello SUSAN!!!!   I loved your passage today on her daughter not wanting to be a mother...   makes me love my kids even more... if that's possible!!   (12/17/09)

Dear Susan,  Me...weeping with hope.  The quiet stable.  (12/17/09)

I just wanted you to know that "A Lantern in Her Hand " is one of my most favorite books of all time....I recieved an old copy of it from Alan's father when Alan and I were first married and I have read it nearly every year...it is in a shambles...but I just hold it together with a rubberband..... (12/17/09)

Susan -- Thanks so much for your letter.  I read it once, but now I'm printing it to read again.  Excellent!!  I appreciate your encouragement----what you wrote about is exactly what God has been laying on my heart in the recent months.  A great reminder for the coming weeks with all of the kiddos at home. (12/17/09)

I can not even believe I'm going to admit to you that I have never read any of her books.  What is wrong with me SUSAN????  This is absolutely beautiful and made me cry.  Esp. the part about losing her husband so young.  I can't even imagine losing my husband and yet it is probably the thing I fear the most.  Most days I too feel like time is just floating by me and I can't do anything to slow or stop it.  I HATE THAT.  There is so much to life.  So much I want to share and enjoy and so many people I want to love and appreciate.  Thank you for reminding that there are some AWESOME books out there, that can express my feelings so much better than I can ever express them myself.  (12/17/09)

Susan.  Woke up this AM and thought is was Thursday…ran to my computer for Thursdays note…disappointment started my day! Anticipating tomorrow!  (12/16/09)

Hi, Susan!  I've been a reader of your Thursday emails for quite a while now, and I thought it was time that I introduced myself.   I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your weekly emails.  As a writer, I share your love of books, words, and all things literary.  I know that writing is often a lonely, even scary, endeavor--sending your once-very-private thoughts and words out into the world and wondering where they land.  So this is a note to let you know that your words have "landed" on me--and for this, I am deeply grateful.  Your words have encouraged me, made me smile, reminded me to look up to God instead of in at myself, and sent me in search of many books.  Thank you for the ministry that you have undertaken and the excellence with which you carry it out.  Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!  (11/19/09)

Susan, just wanted you to know that I finished "No Time on My Hands" last week.  What a wonderful book!  This is one that I'll read again - probably several times over the years.  :)  Thank you for including me in your emails or I'd have never found this gem.  :)   (11/19/09)

 I would like one of the little Warburg books - perfect for my six year old son.
I am so glad your "Hi from Susan" emails arrive on Thursdays.  This daycare mom is usually tired and in need of inspiration at the end of the week!  At the end of this email you said, "Go, look in other's eyes.  There is someone that needs your smile, no matter your own story."  That is so true, especially with children, and it just made me feel wonderul - the little lift that I needed this morning.  That, and the laughter inspired by your three Thanksgiving responsibilities... I can totally relate!  It's like a page from the book of my life. :)  (12/3/09)

I mailed all the books to her for her Christmas, birthday and wedding.  I told her she could open now later, whenever she wanted to.  She chose to open immediately which I knew would happen.  I got a message on my answering machine when she received them.  You could tell she was so happy and excited just by the tone of her voice.  She was especially pleased with the seal of the store on the first page.  She said, "she didn't know how much help Susan gave me but she was pleased with all the selections".  She was going to read all the prefaces and then start reading according to the preface.  Thank you for all your help and I'll be back to make more selections.  Books are Emily's toys and adventures in life. (11/16/09)

Susan I so enjoy your newsletters that I get but yours this morning was especially well written. There are so many that need comforting right now and those poems and words from you are so comforting.  (11/5/09)

Every moment counts…perfect words for me today…gratitude and peace.  I finished reading Dark Nights of the Soul this morning…so perfect for me today.

Last paragraph of the book… 

You become the wounded healer, someone who has made the descent and knows the territory. You take on the depth of color and range of feeling. Your intelligence is now more deeply rooted and not dependent only on facts and reason. Your darkness has given you character and color and capacity. Now you are free to make a real contribution. It is a gift of your dark night of the soul!

And this was the book I rolled my eyes at when you gave me almost 2 years ago!!  (11/5/09)

Spiritual Wisdom from Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, Book VII

“You are not the owner of your life. Let him who owns it do what he likes with it, affirm his will, and be his slave---be free, be happy, meanwhile enjoy your place, and enjoy your portion, That is HIS will.”  These words give me such peace.  (11/3/09)

Your message once again hit the nail on the head.  I am my own worst enemy - I can read until I'm blue in the face and I can't seem to change.  I try to be different and people (my granddaughter) respond the same way, no matter what.  I'm told that she's just being a teenager, but I am one that wants things perfect...God made me that way, so why does He give me a teenager to raise?????  Actually, I'm not one to believe "He" gave me a teenager, that's just the way things happened.  Now, if I could just let him figure out how to get me through this!!  I raised them when I was young, and that was okay; but now I can't seem to handle it.  AND, I'm not one to sit back and wait patiently for an answer...MY DOWNFALL!!  Anyway, thank you for always, always knowing what is going through my head!!  (10/31/09)

Thank you so much for the wonderful notes - I read every one of them.  You touched on so much that I have been feeling - my Mother died last September, my Father died last November and my Father-in-law died last December --- I am in the midst of the first year anniversaries of their deaths - at times it overwhelms me and at times I have peace.   I am not an avid reader, but I do like to read and have read more this year than any other year of my adult life - your notes have me more inspired to read than ever.   Please add me to your email list for Thursdays.  (10/27/09)

 
I also wanted to share the name of two OUTSTANDING books...   "Same Kind of Different As Me" is true story of a homeless guy and an art dealer and his wife who meet him at a soup kitchen type setting.  It is one of the best books ever!!  "Sarah's Key" is also one outstanding book.  It kind of haunts you after you've read it, tho because it's centered around the life of a young girl who escapes a camp where her parents are sent to Holocaust.  (10/16/09)

Have you read this book. I rate it as a must read for anyone who values the education of women. This man is doing more for peace in Pakistan, with minimal funds, than the U.S. military can imagine. (10/15/09)

Sad how the most important things for your soul….get shoved aside for trivial things like work. I’ve been reading the book you gave me nearly 2 years ago, The Dark Nights of  Your Soul. Geez…I thru it aside then because it looked …yucky! But it really is an awesome book…thought provoking and gentle for the wounded spirit we all have sometimes.  (10/2/09)

To me, there is no greater gift on this earth than a book. When I was a little girl, my parents did not have the money to buy a book---however, I did have a cousin who was a teacher and she gave my sister and me some beautiful little books which, to this day, I still have in my possession. (10/1/09)

Just wanted to drop you a note.  I always enjoy reading your weekly notes! But today God must have planned just for me!  I am here this am checking e-mails before we start the day and go to my Dad’s Memorial service.  Thanks for your words, I will be looking toward the hills.  (9/17/2009)

Susan:  Loved visiting your store last August.  As a library director, I thoroughly enjoy your reading recommendation list.  May I add a new two newer titles for you?  Both of the them are inspirational but from very different points of view.  Still Alice by Lisa Genova on the topic of dealing with early onset Alzheimer's and the second Homer's Odyssey by Gwen Cooper about life with a blind cat.  (9/17/2009)

Have you ever read North River by Pete ?Hamill.  Fascinating fictional look at the times/culture of New York City through the eyes of a  physician who survived WWI and heartache to work in his poverty stricken neighborhood--I am not explaining well, but quite good book.  If you have some extra time, check it out.  (8/27/09)

What a beautiful poem.  I really like that.  But I am here to tell you enjoy those dirty little fingers. You will miss them so some day way to soon. Some times when I get upset about something the kids have not put away or done I have to stop and think two more years and its all over .  My baby will have graduated.   Thank you.  8/27/09

I needed your note this morning!!   I have been so looking forward to my Thursday and Friday of painting my kitchen.. and little Jane was up sick all night... here I was, feeling sorry for myself and getting crabby that MY plans were now going to be sidelined.... and your note reminded me that she is such a precious gift to me.. and how lucky I am (and how blessed) that I can be home when she needs me!!  How do you DO that?????  You knew what I needed to hear.  (8/27/09)

Susan – thanks for the message.  I love the little hands.  I still look at my 15 year old’s hand and wonder how they got so big.  And I cherish my 9 year old’s.  I really wish she could stay 9 forever.  And the time alone in the house is nice, but after about 30 minutes, I miss them all!  (8/27/09)

Thank you for a reminder of what is SO important, and yet we take for granted, every day.  Time is fleeting and far too soon those pudgy little hands turn big and strong and then will only occasionally allow the mother to hold them close to her face.  When the house and the car stay clean it means they are gone and we will only have the memories of the mess.  I often wonder how much of their memories will be crowded with mom or dad's voice howling to "pick that mess up"!  (8/27/09)

We have a built in kitchen "hutch" that I covered in shiny white paint last summer.  Between the top and bottom is an open shelf...not very tall, but big enough to put a sugar and creamer or teacups..something like that. Anyway, as I was painting, I thought about the "ceiling" of the shelf.  No one can see it.  Why would I paint it?  THEN...I thought of the grandkids that hopefully will grace my future.  I painted it with just as many coats as the rest of the hutch because I could picture a tiny person looking up at me as I got out the plates to set the table, looking up and seeing the "ceiling" of that shelf...and I would know in my heart that I had painted it for their own little sakes....and the white paint will show off all their tiny fingerprints!  (8/27/09)

I am reading a very old book by Robert Hughes titled "The Fatal Shore" about the settling of Australia by the convicts of England.  Interesting...(8/24/09)

One tiny little hint that has done more than any one thing for my organizational behavior, (and believe me I have to work at being organized.) You probably have already read it or heard it, but it has been so helpful to me, I thought I would share it anyway....I refer to it as the Rule of Five...do just five small things to get the day started and give yourself permission to stop after you do five things. Generally what happens for me is that it is just a trick to get me started, and then once that happens, I gather some momentum. It is a daily struggle for us all to set priorities and keep life balanced...one of those things that is a perpetual work, at least for me. (8/21/09)

I was reading your email this morning, and wanted to recommend this great book to you, Cold Tangerines by Shauna Niequist.  Its subtitle is "Celebrating the Extraordinary Nature of Everyday Life" and that's just what it does!  I just finished it, and it was wonderful.  (8/6/09)

 I have this quotation framed above my desk here at work:

      Earth's crammed with heaven.

     And every common bush afire with God;

     But only he who sees takes off his shoes -

     The rest sit round it and pluck blackberries. 

                    Elizabeth Barett Browning

                    from Aurora Leigh  Book vii  (8/6/09)

My husband uses the music from Les Miserables in his vocal music classroom to teach some important life lessons.  He doesn't belabor the adult themes in the story but the kids always, always are drawn into to story and LOVE the music.  He teaches Middle School vocal music and has found that teaching through story (in music and story telling) is a great opportunity to touch kids where they live and to lift them up.  I fall to pieces each time I hear 'Bring Him Home', "I Dreamed a Dream', 'On My Own', Empty Chairs at Empty Tables'.  (8/3/09)

LOVING the book and the author. Finding so many great lines from her, my favorite was a line about how us mothers put trapeze artists to shame, we balance so much more than they do in our everyday lives! How true is that! You couldn’t have referred this book to me at a better time in my life, thank you again!  (7/27/2009)

I think we all feel we know a number of those "so guided from a soft cradle to a calm and late grave..." and who's to know who thinks that of us!  When people write to me of "days at the pool with the kids", or vacations that are beyond my imagination....or even cars that work most of the time (!) I immediately class their happiness level as much higher than my own.  (I'm not proud of admitting that) However, I DO know grace in my life that I know many people never experience.  This was an excellent reminder to me to selige felicitatem.  (7/27/2009)

I jotted some of these onto stickies and placed them above my desk immediately.  'Cheerfulness' is a daychanger.  Thank you!  ... just heard interview of author Matt Crawford on the Bill Bennett morning talk show:  Shop Class as Soulcraft by Matt Crawford.  Title says it all!  Awesome interview.  Soulstirring.  The title registered with us.  Can't wait to read it.  (7/27/2009)

Your Thursday email last week was jammed with good stuff. I haven't read Bronte for years - about time I revisited her. I'll add, "not the shape you dreamed" to good lines in her paragraph. What to read? We listened to Fellowship of the Ring as we drove home today. Is listening to reading reading? Who is the authority on this argument? The debate rages at the library where I work. Frankly, we have stayed out of the fray - we are too busy 'reading' (call it listening, if you prefer) Tolkien with Rob Inglis. Wishing you well on all fronts, your home, your store, your writing. (7/20/09)

I love the excerpt from Streams in the Desert. Beautiful. Absolutely beautiful. (7/18/09)

The harder it is to turn out the lamp, (as in, there are too many books in front of it) the better the reading! I LOVED Villette! (i went through a Bronte summer where I read 3 or 4 of their books...no regrets. Five for Sorrow, Ten for Joy...I hope you enjoy it. Not a light book, but a very good one. (7/16/09)

Susan, was that email just for me? I am printing off the quote from “Streams in the desert” I’d like a copy of that book too. Do you have them in stock? It’s amazing that your emails put words to my thoughts almost every week. (7/16/09)

Susan, Today's note was sent just at the right time as I feel a bit weary and tired today. I spent 13 hours straight painting in our new room yesterday while watching 3 kids. I felt so tired before I slept last night; but I did start praying. I think I feel asleep before I was finished. (7/16/09)

You have inspired my reading some books I haven’t read for some time, Susan—like Anne Morrow Lindberg’s writings.  And I think perhaps you mentioned Beryl Markham’s WEST WITH THE NIGHT in a column sometime ago . . .?  If not, you do want to read it—it’s an incredible life saga.   And if you haven’t discovered the book THE HORSE BOY:  A Father’s Quest to Heal His Son, by Rupert Isaacson, please get yourself a copy asap!  It is the most incredible true story!  I can’t believe it hasn’t hit the non-fiction best-sellers’ list yet.  I quote from the back of the book jacket “Rupert Isaacson has conjured a nonfiction journey that reads like an epic novel.  It is a book of endless amazements.  The world of Mongolian shamans, the details of adventuresome travel, the mysterious world of autism—all are amazing.  Soon you realize that the world of horses is mysterious, too—and, yes, amazing.  By the time you are in the grip of this book, you’ll see love, marriage, and parenthood as realms of magic, profound power, and further amazements.  The Horse Boy can change the way you see your life, and it’s a terrifically good read at the same time.  It feels like a classic.”  I couldn’t agree more!!! (7/9/09)

I recently read An Episode of Sparrows by Rumer Godden...as well as Five for Sorrow, 10 for Joy . Both were wonderful, although the latter was quite dark. Am reading an EXCELLENT book published last august by Our Sunday Visitor called Mother Teresa's Secret Fire. I highly recommend it. (7/2/09)

I've got to tell you the magnetic ice cream cone maker toy I bought to keep at our house is one of their favorite things when they are over. Even Jay's 7 year old brother loves to imagine with it. (6/30/09)

Susan: I didn't see it mentioned in your newsletter, but I recommend Wednesday's Letters. I read it with the Shack and thoroughly enjoyed it. (6/18/09)

Just want to tell you that I loved your ‘words’ today – I always do but really enjoyed this one and wanted you to know it! I’m one of those who enjoys this kind of weather – I get more done whether it be housework or reading or writing. Anyhow, keep up the good work! Kim brought me the book about the canteen in North Platte during World War II and how I enjoyed reading it. I didn’t know that had even existed – and how much pleasure it brought ‘our boys’!!!! (6/11/09)

To hold the note is to stop the song… is now written in my Bible under favorite quotes. I love that phrase.

____ spoke at church on Saturday and she said that thru all her dealings with her granddaughter she “understands God less, but loves him more.” I wrote that in my Bible, too. He’s too big for us to try to understand, but that should make us love him more. If I understood God, he’d be less of a God to me and he’d fit in a box, I’m glad he doesn’t. (6/11/09)

I’m sorry that you miss your dad so much. You’ve inspired me to call my dad…. We need to talk. He’s on this earth and is my father, why do I not have a relationship with him? Can I rise above the fact that I have to be the parent in our relationship? No matter how much I fuss or pray (I should be doing more of the latter) my dad is who he is and he is here. That won’t always be the case…. Thank you for reminding me of that. (6/4/09)

If you have the opportunity, check out " The day the world came to town: 9/11 in Gander, Newfoundland". It is very uplifting. (6/1/09)

I have been sitting at the computer this afternoon rereading some of your Thursday messages to us. It is chilly, windy, and gray outside and I'm just staying in. I know I have been wasting time today but I needed to just slow down and think. Thank you, thank you for the Thursday morning writings. I look forward to them and sometimes you hit exactly what I'm feeling at the time. That is the Lord working, I know. (5/26/09)

Thank you so much for taking care of the order for the Nantucket Briar Room Spray. It arrived, packaged so nicely, with that sweet treat, and an exceptionally memorable personal note. We are in between travels, so I haven’t had a moment to check out your website. However, I can already tell that I will want to get Thursday notes from you. (5/26/09)

Yes, the minutes of life are ticking by quickly. (5/21/09)

I read your comments about making decisions. Yes, I made the decision in the middle of the night to make homemade french bread.....since I could not sleep. So I crawled back to bed at 3:15 this morning. But I woke up with 2 long beautiful loaves of french bread on my counter. :-) Yes, the minutes of life are ticking by quickly. (5/21/09)

Thanks Susan. Been there, done that. Still have moments. I would add, “listen, deeply listen to music.” (5/21/09)

Thank you for your message. I saw Michael J Foxx on Dateline how powerful. My mother suffered from Parkinsons Disease horrible thing to live with. His book sounds like something I really need to read. (5/21/09)

I loved this newsletter! Oh how I can relate. I appreciate knowing that I can leave the wet laundry in the washer and go play with my kids instead!!!! (since that is what I usually do anyway :)) (5/7/09)

I'm wondering how long it would take to embroider this whole "edition" onto a pillow! Rob has been working full time with hospice for almost two years, and he has NEVER mentioned anyone regretting that they didn't tidy up more often! Order matters...I know it does, but so does balance and sanity and laughing and reading and playing.. Thanks again for a wonderful beginning to my Thursday! (5/7/09)

First of all, I love that you are reading Henri Nouwen. I loved The Way of the Heart and Peacework. Reading him in college was a major factor in entering Occupational Therapy School. Living in NYC has reminded me that of the sad truth that our natural response to suffering is often to look way.....to pass on the other side of the
road. Reading his words have caused me to enter into a field, I had rarely considered. And it constantly challenges what it means to be a friend.

"Let us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate. Compassion is hard because it requires the inner disposition to go with others to the place where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. But this is not our spontaneous response to suffering. What we desire most is to do away with suffering by fleeing from it or finding a quick cure for it. As busy, active, relevant ministers, we want to earn our bread by making a real contribution.  This means first and foremost doing something to show that our presence makes a difference. And so we ignore our greatest gift, which is our ability to enter into solidarity with those who suffer. Those who can sit in silence with their fellowman, not knowing what to say but knowing that they should
be there, can bring new life in a dying heart. Those who are not afraid to hold a hand in gratitude, to shed tears in grief and to let a sigh of distress arise straight from the heart can break through paralyzing boundaries and witness the birth of a new fellowship, the fellowship of the broken."
-Henri Nouwen (5/22/09)